“The Best First Date Advice Is To Meet A Woman For A Cup Of Coffee For About 30 Minutes”

This kind of first date has a lot of advantages, because you communicate a lot of attractive qualities with it, plus you will spare time if you don’t like her.

Let’s discuss all the advantages of following this first date advice.

First date advice Advantage #1:

You Communicate That You Have A Life

I think that having a life is not particularly attractive, it is pretty normal actually.

But the opposite is more true, because communicating that you don’t have a life is very unattractive.

When you have a quick first date this immediately communicates that you have a life, which also instantly makes you more attractive.

A lot of guys want to get as much as possible out of the situation immediately when dating a woman for the first time, which conveys that they don’t have options with women, that they are needy and that they probably don’t have to offer a lot of value to people in general.

Don’t do this, just relax and lean back. You really want to follow this first date advice, because women want you to behave strong and dominant, just like they love a challenge.

“If You’re Sick And Tired Of Wasting Time On Bad Dates, Then Follow This First Date Advice”

First date advice Advantage #2:

She Understands That Your Time Is Valuable

Setting up a quick first date will convey that your time is valuable, which means that you are using your time productive and effective.

It is actually only natural not to spend a lot of time with someone you hardly know, for example on a first date, because you first want to know if the two of you can exchange some value with each other.

By the way, with value exchange I mean: telling each other fascinating stories, laughing, discussing interesting stories, learning something from one another, etc.

First date advice Advantage #3:

YOU Have A Chance To Decide If You Want To See Her Again

Meeting someone you don’t know for 30 minutes on a first date is actually long enough to know if there is a click.

You can probably feel it already in the first 5 minutes. But, of course, some people are a bit shy and they first need to get out of their shell.

So there are two options after this short first date… That is either deciding that there is no click or connection, which would only cost you 30 minutes (of your valuable time).

Or deciding to see her again and then to make a second and longer date.

Either way, it is just 30 minutes. If you are not interested in her, you can just simply say after the short first date that you felt no click or connection and that you want to leave it for what it is.

If you are interested in her, you can set up a second date at the end or you can just say ‘bye’ and let her guess if you want see her again.

First date advice Advantage #4:

The Two Of You Will Feel A Lot More Comfortable

If there is a time limit, people feel more comfortable in general.

It is just like saying to a woman you just approached, that you have to leave in a second. In reality you could stand there for the rest of the night, but it will just feel like there is no pressure or expectations in the situation.

This is also very effective on a quick first date. It is more relaxed when you think about talking to someone for 30 minutes, then for a whole day or night.

Questions like: “What if we don’t click and there are going to be awkward silence?” are less threatening when you just go for coffee for 30 minutes.

First date advice Advantage #5:

You Will Feel Much More Relaxed

When you are relaxed because all the pressure is of the situation, then this influences your first date in a positive way.

Remember, that when you are comfortable, she will be comfortable too, which results in a more smooth first date with more chances of bonding and connecting with each other.

You will convey this with relaxed male body language like leaning back, not having nervous tics etc.

Good luck with your first date!

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